i think that me, myself, and i, am selfish. if i weren't, i'd talk about other things on my blog, right? but no. i don't think it's that rare though, most people don't talk about other things. so does this prove my point that human nature is basically selfish? not necessarily. it depends on what the other people are writing about. and if they have a reason to think about themselves exclusively, without making them selfish. or if they talk about others in a way that denotes that they care more about others than themselves. but, is it really necessary to love others more than yourself, to not be selfish? are their other ways of not being selfish? or is it "selfish" that i'm thinking of? maybe self-centered? in that you think about your self mostly? or self-love, which, really, shouldn't everyone have anyway? it's called confidence. and that obviously is not particularly common, as most people have low self esteem. and it doesn't apply to me, because i don't have much confidence... eh. wait a while. i need to figure this out... aargh, my brain hurts!